How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 15:55

Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Why do people who were very kind and loving once become cold-hearted?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Why is my ex still keeping in touch with me even though she dumped me?
That's it for today.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Hillary thinks we must censor or "we lose total control". Why does she demand total control?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
When does a man tell a woman he has feelings for her?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Do not set goals—set systems.
What is a narcissist grandmother like, with her grandchild?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Why are people becoming increasingly hostile to pro-lifers? I am pro-life.
Does not procrastinate.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What I need from you?
What do flat Earthers think causes the "magical downward force"?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Is there a possibility that we are living in a simulation and that there is a concept of rebirth?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Why do North Indians, living in Bangalore, not bother to learn Kannada?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Procrastinates a lot.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Ask yourself:
Losing 20kg is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?